welcome to imperfect prose on thursdays, 2013. this week's prompt is create.
it's cheese and crackers for lunch, with friends from the city. they've spent the night and we've rung the new year in, with boardgames and glasses of wine and homemade truffles.
trent, a teacher, is returning to work soon, to teach math to our hamlet of Dutch students, while around the world, 15 million children will be forced to miss school, working 17 hour days for pennies.
we're talking about child labor, and my friend's husband says some people try not to buy child labor products because they don't support the idea, but then the children will lose their jobs and how will that help them in the long run?
i quietly stack my crackers, our kids watching TV and my heart racing. how does working at their current employment help them, even in the short run? he doesn't know that i'm one of those people.
"well, what would you suggest we do otherwise?" i ask as politely as i can, because when it comes to mistreated children, i see red. "how else can we get the message across that this is wrong?"
because it is, but he didn't have an answer, and our children were sitting in their clothes stitched by boys and girls not much older than them, holding toys manufactured in countries where families sleep in the same bed because they can't afford more than one mattress and we throw out those plastic toys like they grow on trees only they don't. they grow on our conscience.
and i don't know what to do, other than react, to not support the buyers directly, to shop thrift stores and support the independents and locals. i do buy fair trade coffee, but that's the tip of the berg. and i know it's not solving the problem of child labor, but until i know how to create a solution, i can only react. at least reacting sends a message.
but our goal as Christians should be to create. creation and reaction, they use the same letters, and yet they're polar opposites. for most of my childhood i reacted. i starved myself when i felt pain. i defended, i took shelter, i retreated. and i disappeared. because that's what reaction does, it causes disconnect.
and i've spent much of my adult life creating, in the face of pain. i take the sorrow, the despair, and i try my best to churn through it, to enter into it, to connect. through paint and words and physical action, and trying to make something beautiful from it. reaction causes you to retreat. creation gives you the courage to entreat.
so i sat there stacking cheese and crackers trying to build a solution to all of the evil entwined with our shopping.
the old testament, with all of its prophets and kings and wars, was about reacting to sin. the new testament is about creating a new way of living, because we've been given access to the creator through his spirit.
and maybe it starts with reacting. maybe everything does. and it becomes creating when the 'c' is put first. when Christ becomes those children in those factories with their fingers bloodied and their tired little legs longing to run home.
and aren't we all just longing to run home?
some facts:
- One in six children 5 to 14 years old — about 16 percent of all children in this age group — is involved in child labor in developing countries.
- In the least developed countries, 30 percent of all children are engaged in child labor.
- Worldwide, 126 million children work in hazardous conditions, often enduring beatings, humiliation and sexual violence by their employers.
- An estimated 1.2 million children — both boys and girls — are trafficked each year into exploitative work in agriculture, mining, factories, armed conflict or commercial sex work.
- The highest proportion of child laborers is in sub-Saharan Africa, where 26 percent of children (49 million) are involved in work. (Compassion)
some awesome ethical sites:
Toms Shoes and Eyewear: with every pair of shoes or glasses you purchase, Tom's will give a pair to a child in need.
Free2Work: End Human Trafficking by knowing which corporations to support/buy from.
Warby Parker frames: For every pair of glasses purchases, a pair is given to someone in need.)
Stop Child Labor: pursuing an end to child labor exploitation
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react, create. oh yes, this change, putting the C first, Christ in us, abiding there.
ReplyDeletethank you Emily!
ReplyDeletemmm, em. this is life-giving.
ReplyDeletethis thing of the prompt, i was tentative. i was unsure if i would like the new feel, the structure i assumed would come hand in hand. but this opened me deeper, it added to my year of release. i will love rejoicing here in this newness.
<3 breathe life, always, em.
I recently ran a marathon to raise awareness & funds to trample on child sex trafficking. I've been reading your blog for some time, as I had an eating disorder for 14 years. Timely post as one of my goals this year is to support slavery less in my spending, as well as to give toward causes that protect and rescue children from trafficking. Thanks for the resources!
ReplyDeleteThis is so good, Em. Thank you for sharing and provoking thought. You are wise.
ReplyDeleteOh my. Convicting. So convicting! I am a reactor. I see the bad, the huge problems, and who knows what to do? What is the answer? How do we fix something that big? So many things so big? You nailed it - we put the C first. Christ taught us to create. Thank you for your wisdom, Emily. You are a jewel.
ReplyDeleteEm, There are days that your words comfort me by reminding me I'm not alone. And then there are days your words challenge and convict. This is that day. Thank you, friend!
ReplyDeleteWhat a beautiful, convicting, unexpected take on "create". I love your contrast of react and create, of moving the c to the front.
ReplyDeleteIt's a difficult question, the one you raise, on how to make a difference. We were discussing this the other day - talking about fair trade and fair wages and what to do when those adults desperately need the $5/day they make. I wish I knew the answer.
Love your heart for others. Thanks for bringing this to light. We bought several pairs of Toms as Christmas gifts this year, love knowing how it helps.
ReplyDeleteLove the one letter difference in these 2 words...I am a recovering reactor myself....Christ first...Christ's love...creating space for his healing love to flow. Great post my friend xoxox
ReplyDeleteSobering, eye-opening post. Thank you.
ReplyDeleteEmily, this post took me in a COMPLETELY different direction than I expected. I've been supporting an outreach here in the Seattle area called Arts Aftercare for women coming out of the sex trade. Our women's group is also considering supporting a program called Genesis Project. I'm going to write about it soon....if I can.
ReplyDeleteAn absolutely stunning, frightening, beautiful, world-changing collection of words here. God delights in you, my friend. I can say that with complete confidence.
ReplyDeleteMy first time linking up for Imperfect Prose, Emily, and I just want to say, I love this whole paragraph so much: "and i've spent much of my adult life creating, in the face of pain. i take the sorrow, the despair, and i try my best to churn through it, to enter into it, to connect. through paint and words and physical action, and trying to make something beautiful from it. reaction causes you to retreat. creation gives you the courage to entreat." You have no idea - this is me, too, just with a different voice. I love what you're doing here.
ReplyDeleteI'm reacting here with tears. Oh. So. Powerful. Yes, what Jennifer said. Oh yes.
ReplyDeleteI do try to be wise with my shopping 'items' although the other day I got something on line and it came to me from hong kong, sewed and I wondered who sewed it and it sits on a shelf now. I am not proud of my 'purchases' at times but how does one know? how can one only buy USA products?
ReplyDeleteIt is a real question.
The need is so great. May we all do what we can and may we open our eyes to see how much that truly is. Thank you for sharing this. I'm going to visit those links.
ReplyDeleteEmily, thank you for helping me see where the 'c' should be placed...my heart will never forget.
ReplyDeletethank you.
I was a little nervous about the prompt as well, but it has been incredible to see where this word was taken when placed in the hands of others.
ReplyDeletePS. My keyboard was really hesitant to let me capitalize your name every time I tried to link to this post. I took that as a good sign.
I agree thought provoking. I am praying over what I can do.
ReplyDeleteOh, Emily, it is such a helpless feeling in light of these ugly facts. Thank you for not shying away from this hard issue--for making me think about it and ponder how I can create a new and better in the midst. Your heart is stunning.
ReplyDeleteWow...wow...provoking and beautiful, encouraging to my soul.
ReplyDeletei'll keep this with me, the difference between creation and reaction.
ReplyDeletethanks for reminding us that our consumer habits matter, that they prop up injustice or grow another way. we'll move our feet together.
I've read through this twice now and it breaks my heart each time. How can this happen? How can these little children be subjected to this in this day and time? Mind blowing.
ReplyDeletebuying fair trade and local is such a simple easy way to help. It may not be the solution but it's a start.
Thanks for breaking my heart 2x today!
Very CREATIVE piece! ;) I love how you put words to the thoughts and emotions you experience.
ReplyDelete"reaction causes you to retreat. creation gives you the courage to entreat."
"the old testament, with all of its prophets and kings and wars, was about reacting to sin. the new testament is about creating a new way of living, because we've been given access to the creator through his spirit.
and maybe it starts with reacting. maybe everything does. and it becomes creating when the 'c' is put first. ~Christ"
Thank you for putting it so bluntly. I agree with you heartily... still learning to change the react into create.
I'm finding that the "prompt" makes it much easier to interact and form a little community. I'm often overwhelmed by the diversity of posts and struck speechless, but something about a clearer common thread is very helpful.
ReplyDeleteoh yay! that was our goal. thank you for confirming that it's working friend. love to you...
DeleteOoh...i had never thought about react and create. I'm challenged to create, to re-use instead of throw out, to mend creatively, even in darning socks rather than add to the landfill. I have been personally challenged to buy from thrift stores instead of new because so much comes from overseas with unsafe, unhealthy work places, even when it is adults doing the work. So much of our "wealth" comes from denying proper wages or safe conditions to people. I was convicted of this several years ago when reading James 5. We've drastically changed our food buying habits and are continuing to find ways in which to refine our spending, etc.
ReplyDeleteEmily, my first imperfect prose link up. Its imperfect... but a start!
ReplyDeleteThank you, Em, for speaking out. It is a start. Isn't it? If we all do our little part it maybe it will make a difference. It is so heartbreaking. You have such a tender, passionate heart.
ReplyDeleteSobering facts and figures. Thanks for challenging us.
ReplyDelete"and maybe it starts with reacting. maybe everything does. and it becomes creating when the 'c' is put first."
ReplyDeleteI read your words last night before I posted mine :) I felt then like I do now. I need time to ingest them, let them sit in me a while and just linger on the meaning. I love that. That this was a post I could not just gobble up and move on. it is a post I will chew on for days to come.
Great start to the year - thanks E.
ReplyDeleteHi Emily and Imperfect Prose community,
ReplyDeleteIt's nice to be back! Those are hard questions... I just finished reading "Half the Sky." Have you read that yet?
Jennifer Dougan
www.jenniferdougan.com
I don't have the answers to these problems, but I fight the battle on my knees. Child labor, human trafficking, these are abominations, but it's all about greed.
ReplyDeleteMy struggle with our approach to concerns about child labour is that I don't believe children working in and of itself is wrong. When I was in Burkina Faso, every person in a farming household had a role. Little boys tended sheep. Their big brothers did the planting. Little girls helped their mothers, while their big sisters carried water. This reminded me a lot of the American "frontier" days and struck me as very wholesome. These kids, however, are going to school (when there is a school accessible to them - a different issue!) and they live in loving families (usually - we can't always see what happens in the privacy in the home). But I think these kids will have greater fortitude of character because they began being productive at a younger age. On the other hand, what about those who don't go to school? What about those who are suffering violence in their homes? And, in Burkina Faso, we were hugely concerned about those farmers' sons whose dads had decided the family could make more money mining gold, and so the little boys had to drop everything to go work in the mines.
ReplyDeleteUltimately, every individual is a person. Every family is a family. And I love the way you compare creating with reacting - so so true. But how can we really do that when we are not right there in the community, when we don't have a personal relationship to see the needs, urges, desires, that are driving their decisions in the first place.
Sorry for a rant... I really did appreciate your thoughts on this! And I'll definitely be pondering how we can create something good, especially as I may be returning to Burkina Faso in a couple of weeks :)
Valid points.
DeleteLOVE what you shared here, girl. NEVER be sorry for sharing your heart and your opinions. love you.
DeleteLoving the thoughts here. Even though it's heart rending... that's needed. :] xxxx
ReplyDeleteI've had the same conversation time and time again. THank you for these beautiful thoughts. Tweeted and pinned :)
ReplyDeletexx