Tuesday, January 1, 2013

12 blogging resolutions (and announcing changes to Imperfect Prose on Thursdays)

as a blogger, who is also a believer, a mother, a wife and an artist, i vow, in the year 2013, to:

1. never let the Nativity stop being born in my words, but more importantly, in my life, and if it does the latter, then i will refrain from the former until my personal life is put right with Christ.


2. never stop sharing music through my blog (although i am now providing it as a playlist in the right-hand column which you can manually control.)

3. always uplift and protect my family, my friends, my husband and my God.

4. never write just for the sake of writing, even if this means taking a week off, or two.

5. never not write out of fear of not having anything to say, but trust God will provide the words even as i sit down and type.

6. never comment on another person's blog simply in the hopes of having them read mine, but do it out of the sincere desire to encourage and engage. and if i don't have time to comment, or if it means jeopardizing my number one ministry (my family), i won't.


7. never use my blog as a means for boasting about my accomplishments, while humbly sharing about the gifts God has given me.

8. continue to keep the comments section open, as a way to spark conversation, in spite of the chance of receiving negative or critical words, or not receiving any words at all, or receiving far more than i can ever respond to.

9. keep Jesus as my number one audience and if that should falter, if my focus should waver, then my posts will only resume once my eyes have been re-fixed.

10. never use my posts as a means for admonishing, correcting, or preaching, but simply as offerings from the heart of what God is teaching this humble sinner.

11. be honest and transparent even with the painful stuff, but never using my blog as a diary or a personal pity-party.

12. always write about subjects that are God-centered such as truth, justice, and mercy, but never feel pressured to tack "God" onto a post simply to make it appeal to readers.


thank you, readers, for being so faithful to me. for keeping me alive in Christ and for praying over my family in 2012. 

we had a hard year, with fostering joey and jin, with the flooding of our basement, with family members getting cancer (and me cutting my beloved dreadlocks), but we also had a good year, with reuniting joey and jin with their mother, with renovating our basement, with watching our loved ones beat cancer. 

and writing-wise, this year has wowed me, God giving me three book contracts (along with four little boys) and his faithfulness in it all.


i look forward to continuing with you, and hope you find this space to be unique, fresh, and compassionate.



ANNOUNCEMENTS about imperfect prose on thursdays:

  1. it will be resuming NEXT week, on wednesday, january 9th, but INSTEAD of posting in the mornings of wednesday, i will be posting in the EVENINGS and then letting the link-up run all day thursday.
  2. we have a few more team members joining, and a couple leaving. those joining us will be: kelli woodford, holly grantham, shelly miller, brenna d'ambrosio and elizabeth marshall. our dear suzannah is leaving, due to other time commitments. those sticking with us are nancy franson, brandee shafer, elizabeth stewart and tara pohlkotte. these ladies will be helping me to comment, and to post. i lean hard on them.
  3. finally, we will be adding PROMPTS to the weekly link-ups. i will do my best to announce the prompt on facebook and twitter a day before the link-up... if you aren't my fb friend, find me HERE, and on twitter, HERE.

cheers, and a joyous new year!


68 comments:

  1. Beautiful resolutions. I am compelled to use capitals, but respect your freedom to not do so. I wear jeans to church anyway and am not compelled to impress anyone with my appropriate clothing or lack thereof...but hope that others see beyond the fabric worn. I love when you comment and visit, but understand that none of us really can do it all and especially the more stretched you become with all that God is allowing- trust that you will keep Him central, and foremost in all and that will be good. I like to keep a journal and blogging separate. But also don't mind anything that my blogging friends share from the heart. Happy New Year, Em. Keep on shining. God is smiling on you. Linger there-He is so good!

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    1. i love that you feel compelled to use caps friend :) and that you wear jeans to church! you are such a blessing to me dawn. may you have a full and peaceful 2013.

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  2. i am with you completely on the lack of capitals...i usually write that way but do mix them in on occassion...eh, i do write just to write...its a discipline...i may even preach a bit on occassion, ha...but mostly its about conversation...smiles. happy new year em...i wish the best for you and your fam...

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    1. hmm, you know, i understand that need to write for discipline. that's a tough one. i totally see what you're saying. and while i agree that your writing has a message, i wouldn't say you preach. your words are FULL of grace and story. parables, really. happy new year friend :) so grateful for you and your lower-case words.

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  3. Your words are always such a blessing to me. I probably have the most trouble with number 6. I tend to avoid writing when I fear that I have nothing to say. Nice to know that I am not alone in that :) Blessings to you and your family in the coming year friend.

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    1. you are definitely not alone, dear wendy. love to you. xo

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  4. Thanks Emily. Being new-ish (can only say that for 2 more weeks!) I've needed these reminders to stay grounded in what it true, praiseworthy and excellent. I'm always blessed when I come here and glad to be able to take away a new bit of life when I do. Happy 2013!

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    1. oh friend i'm so glad this post resonated with you. what an encouragement you are. happy 2013 to you as well!

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  5. Great goals. And thank you for keeping the comments open. It's nice to send you an encouraging word every now and again :-).

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    1. miranda, i SO appreciate your encouraging words. you are such a gift to me. bless you.

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  6. you are the real deal, emily wierenga. you bless this community with your heart and grace-words.

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    1. wow. such a compliment. thank you dear suzannah. this means so much. xo

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  7. These resolutions echo so much of my heart. So grateful for your voice and this space here.

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    1. oh, thank you sweet annie. this means so much, coming from you.

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  8. Such wisdom here. New to your blog and newish to blogging. Think all of this resonates with me. Especially making Jesus the focus and stepping back from leaving lots of comments on other people's blogs if it is draining and taking away from the work God has for me to do. Particularly important to remember as someone with health probs yet strong desire to be an encourager!
    Loved this post. Will definitely visit again. And sit on my hands to resist the urge to comment. Bless you for this valuable ministry. :)

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    1. hi joy! i'm excited to visit your blog. so glad this resonated with you. many blessings! e.

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  9. Some people scoff at resolutions, but your show much wisdom, and thus their value. sorry about the caps...jk

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    1. i am actually one of those people who scoff at resolutions :P but i felt i needed to make these to keep myself in check. thank you friend. and you're forgiven about the caps :)

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  10. right there with you on the capitals, you know! love you!

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  11. So a lot of these I need to borrow for myself, too. Thanks, Em, for your consistent honesty and vulnerability. It makes the world a more authentic--and loving--place. May God bless these resolutions for you and all others of us who attempt them.

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    1. friend, thank you for loving me so deeply. i'm so glad you found these resolutions useful. bless you.

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  12. Yes, yes, yes! You said so many of the things that hang around in my head. Thank you for organizing them for me. Blessings to you and your family in this new year.

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    1. oh, i'm so glad melanie :) blessings to you and yours as well.

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  13. yes, oh yes, dear emily.

    the capital letters, they are tripping me up, i think. part of me wants to write with precision, "appropriately," with the right bits of this and that. but i've been off capitalization for a while now, even though it is a die-daily sort of act.

    you may have inspired a blog post from me here, friend. yet another portion of my year of release.

    bless you, dear heart. bless you, sweet friend.

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    1. i love that you are experiencing a year of release, friend. we all need this. to be released from ourselves. bless you.

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  14. What commendable resolutions, Emily. I love your playlist --- the music is life-affirming. I beg to differ about capital letters, though. I just think the conventional usage is easier to read. Visually, though, I kind of like all lower case.

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    1. i do understand what you're saying about caps, friend. i guess i use them so much in my professional life, that i choose to relax more when i'm blogging... as a form of mild rebellion more than anything :) blessings to you.

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  15. These are good, good words. Love this, but even more I love your heart that motivates you in all decisions. P.S. WOLF WHISTLE about the new header, babe.

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    1. oh girl, i love your heart too. thank you.

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  16. Thanks for writing your resolutions. It inspires me to write my own down. Some of these are things I have thought of myself, others newly challenge me to rethink. All of them are the reason that I keep coming back here.

    I'm wondering about your thoughts on the prompts for imperfect prose. Just curious about the why behind the change.

    Thanks for keeping Jesus central and the music on the blog. I enjoy it! I have found some new favorites through you.

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    1. hi friend, we just thought it might make the focus clearer each week, and help to inspire people more when it comes to writing out prose... thank you for keeping Jesus central in your life too. love you.

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    2. Hey, thanks for answering my question...I'm not always good at responding to other people's prompts but I do love to be inspired. I find your blog inspiring so I imagine the prompts will be too -- :+)

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  17. i'm with you on this! (even #2, I hate to having to capitalize...stupid rules and autocorrect haha)

    praying for you love!

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    1. thank you so much for prayers friend. xo

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  18. These are all so good. I've enjoyed blogging for a couple years now, and for the first time since beginning I'd really wondered about it with this new year. Reading your post added clarity to my conclusions. Thank you:)

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    1. thank you dear amy. may God guide you as you walk this blogging journey. it's a beautiful one. bless you.

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  19. I so appreciate this, Emily. I do use my blog to "preach" - I often post sermon manuscripts there, after I've preached them in my church - but I these are very much shared "as offerings from the heart of what God is teaching this humble sinner."

    Blessings in the new year.

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    1. oh friend, i'm so glad you share your sermon manuscripts. i hope you didn't feel judged by that statement... i know that your sermons are written in love, not in judgment, and that was the main premise of what i was trying to say: that i hope everything i write will be in love. blessings to you, too, dear katherine. xo

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  20. I just have to say I love your writing, your blog and the way God has allowed me to 'meet' you even if it is only through the internet. You are a blessing to many.
    SOMEDAY I will meet you in person. :o)

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  21. Amen, amen and amen. Your resolutions really resonate with me. Well, except for the not-using-capitals-part. I enjoy reading writing without capitals, but I will always use them myself because of the English teacher inside of me. She just won't go away! :)

    Thank you for this, Emily. I think you are a trailblazer and my heart has been encouraged this morning. love, Sadee

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    1. oh sadee, what an encouragement you are to me. i both love and tremble at the idea of being a trailblazer. as long as Jesus is clearing the brush in front of me, i don't mind though. love you.

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  22. Oh, p.s. I absolutely love your new header photo! The color is so creamy and soft. And you are just beautiful!

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  23. Love to visit your site. Always makes me think. Happy new year!

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    1. i'm so glad friend! thanks for the encouragement! blessings.

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  24. I absolutely love your resolutions!

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    1. thank you so much tereasa! peace to you and yours! e.

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  25. I think it helps to have mission statements to our blogs - miniature contracts that help us to be true to our motives and our mission! BTW - when I read the hobbit the first time, I noticed that after every great challenge, Bilbo was given a time of spiritual, mental and physical refreshing. The same process carried through to LOTR - and the reading came the realization that God does the same for us - provides us that holistic refreshening. Praying that you get time of refreshing in 2013!

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    1. i LOVE this idea of a refreshing period after a test... i do feel that is what God is giving me right now. thank you for speaking into my life, friend.

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  26. this is really helpful. thanks ms. e! more blessings to you and your family this 2013.

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  27. My heart smiles as I read your resolutions. And I love that your team now includes Kelli, Shelly and Elizabeth along with Tara. You've picked some of my closest writing friends (sisters of the heart) and I am not surprised at all. Yay. Love you Emily.

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    1. i love you so much girl. your writing reminds me of theirs and i hope that one day you can be part of the imperfect team too. xo

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  28. Hi Emily, just wanted to let you know I nominated your blog for 'the sunshine award' and sharing your blog with my readers. Don't feel pressured to participate. You can check out my blog for the details. :)

    Happy New Year!

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    1. wow, thank you so much cathy! you are such a blessing. xo

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  29. I love your heart so much, Emily. Whether I get over here every time you post or two weeks later, I am always blessed by your sweet spirit. If only Canada weren't so far away...

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    1. oh friend, i would LOVE to sit and have coffee with you. one of these days.... xoxo

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  30. I'm new to your blog, but just wanted to say I love the resolutions. They made me pause to really think about my motives for blogging. Blessings in 2013!

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    1. i'm SO glad anne. bless you as you blog for him!

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  31. So well articulated! Emily, I'm making your blogging resolutions the prayer of my heart -- for my writing and for my life. Thank you for always baring raw and being inspiration.

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  32. Emily, I have a thing for capitalization... I am an English teacher after all! I can't even force myself not to capitalize in my text messages! I think your blog resolutions are great though. I've enjoyed reading your posts and think that it IS super WOW that you have three book deals! I'm sure your words will encourage and help many others.

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  33. Emily, you are such an ispiration to me. Thank you for all that you are doing for those around you through your blog and your books and conferences!
    Mary

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